Love is Power

Hi everyone, you know what is nonsense? Nonsense is about the story created by somebody which somebody him/herselve believe it's true in his/her mind and spread it around and around and then try to make somebody else who is also stupid to believe, or we can called the somebody is screenwriter :)

Well, I know you guys know what am I talking about and don't be odd if you know many of this kind fellas because I have at least one of the 'somebody-s' in my friend list as well :)

Nothing much, just accept until you can't stand it anymore. oppss! I meant if you can Submit to humiliation then you are the best. haha! If 'somebody' curse you, talk bad behind you, what do you feel? I know you have feeling too and you know it.

In the first stage, you'll extremely piss off of that person and think of thousand ways to revenge on him/her. In the second stage, you've heard something like that again about that person talk bad behind you, well this time you'll think of thousand ways to kill this person until you sacrifice your sleep time. When it came to third stage, which is you finally forget about that BUT you heard from someone that the person talk bad behind you AGAIN. This time, you won't think anymore, you'll ACTION!
You call the one who you really trust to get some power from him/her, and do something on 'somebody'.

Guess what, the one you trust the most said "Roger that, I'll call that person and tear him/her off". You start to feel sympathy to the person. WHYYYYY????? Because your heart is in gold. And then when you think back, you'll found that you've be a gentleman/gentlewoman for looooong period, and why you can't just continue to be?

Until now, I'm being the good one, and I'll become the better good one...
I don't know whether I can do it but I'll put this as my goal. The thing I should do is, make myself happy, relax...

Let the truth fly to the mind of the one that I care. I know the people who know me, care of me and love me will believe on me without any doubt :)

我的交流方式 :p

做人难，有时候你明明没做什么，可是往往却会有人妒忌你。
难做人，有时候你以为你对人好，可是偏偏一些人就喜欢良心当狗肺。
人难做，有时候你的心肠真的没问题，可是就是有人心肠有问题。


生活就是这样，你要活下去，就必须面对社会丑陋的一面，人毕竟不是独立个体，而是需要互相交流。交流过程当中，不是每个人都是交心，对方可能是有机心，想从你身上占便宜。我的看法是，出来交朋友，首先别把人家当作是好人，所谓防人之心不可无嘛！一个人如果稍有脑子的，都不会那么快让你觉得他是有问题的，要骗你，首先要取得你的信任。就是这样，打交道就像是比IQ游戏，IQ高的就看得穿对方的底到哪，同时不被人看穿自己。这是防身术；没有这意识的人，不是被看成善良，而是笨。
你也许会觉得我这个人没有“情”，但是请你想清楚，如果一开始没看准人，那你随便散播的情值得吗？一旦觉得一个人能交心（凭个人看法，当然也要有智慧而不是盲目），那你就会至少比较放心与此人交流了。

大家可以把这世界看得黑暗，同时不忘用另外一个角度想一想，没有黑暗的对比，哪有光明的存在？有的，只要用心与累计的智慧去思考和分析，就明白了。

半夜睡不着时，不要只是为情烦恼，想一想人生，人性，因果...让你的头脑思考思考，久而久之就会成为有智慧的人，你只会变得更好，不会堕落！

4/5/2011

如果不是我朋友告诉我，我也不知道有些人竟然会无耻到自编故事自导自演装可怜！
其实之前我已经决定不做什么反击行动，我只奢望小人会突然之间醒悟，不要太过分；然而，却让我知道了她还是很过分。都多少岁了，还在背后说人家坏话。其实如果她是有种的话，我倒还佩服她；可是小人始终是小人，在背后说人坏话的同时还是会在你面前扮大方，这种才叫人觉得恶心。
只有没脑的人才会相信小人会有一天不在背后说些她自己编的故事，而我就是那笨蛋！
从这一刻起，我不再是笨蛋。

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